[Marsh.]

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Seriously though, how do you know that?

I’d agree that not every case is black and white. Some people might cheat because they’ve been treated poorly, others might cheat because they’re just a ****ty person. Not every person who cheats is a bad person, sure, but some people do just cheat on their partners for the simple fact that they’re unable to stay faithful and that’s not ok.

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do

Originally Posted by Liam-

I don’t buy people not intending to hurt someone when they cheat, they know what’s going to happen, they can’t believe their other half will be happy about it

Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do


Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Jake: People...

Stacey: Don't speak about PEOPLE in GENERAL! You don't know them!

But lemme tell you about YOU!

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Jake: People...

Stacey: Don't speak about PEOPLE in GENERAL! You don't know them!

But lemme tell you about YOU!

Honestly it’s ****ing drivel. Idk if they’re justifying Bear cheating or themselves cheating but it’s so convoluted and I don’t even think they know what point they’re actually trying to make anymore.

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Oh Jake pls lmao. Stop trying to make it personal.

You're as bad as the rest of them which is sad to say

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Stop trying to make it personal.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Oh Jake pls lmao. Stop trying to make it personal.

You're as bad as the rest of them which is sad to say

You’re a moron

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Oh Jake pls lmao. Stop trying to make it personal.

You're as bad as the rest of them which is sad to say

Also, “stop trying to make it personal”, like do you lack all sense of self awareness?

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

You’re a moron

Originally Posted by Jake.

Also, “stop trying to make it personal”, like do you lack all sense of self awareness?

Quit with the personal insults when you have never even spoken to me

Keep following your friends though. It's a shame you don't take a little more tips off of people who have class like Drew

[Matthew.]

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

Off on another tangent.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

I never mentioned discord once, so back and look at that for yourself

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

You're not even paying attention to what you're typing.

Embarrassing.

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner. It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

Sorry, when did we start discussing specific people (apart from Stephen Bear who seemed to get forgotten about 2 pages ago). We're ALL talking in GENERAL.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

So you can ASSUME all of this in a hypothetical scenario about "cheaters" to reach your opinion but mine's invalid?

No. You've gone so far off track you're tied in knots.

A bad act doesn't make a bad person, necessarily. Intentional actions that hurt and deceive another person is pretty sh*tty behaviour which goes a long way to showing me the measure of a person.