[user104658]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think most people get this no? Although I would qualify that with a ‘‘some men’..

I find that a bit pandery, it's implied anyway and I personally don't understand why any man who knows he isn't a danger to women needs to have that pointed out. It's part of the whole problem really; outraged cries of "by pointing out any risks you tar all of [group] with the same brush!!". It just isn't true.