[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Pigeon Lady

…I think that it sounds as though you supported him as much as you were able to at the time, Kate…it’s that self care again, isn’t it though…if we don’t preserve anything in ourselves, then there is little to give to others…as you say, your balance is there more now because you have your routine and focus more etc…but to try to think of it still as a ‘work in progress’ because the more that you have those other focuses in caring for others, than the more energy you need so more self care…it really is about keeping that balance…if you use more then you need more, you know…Liverpool and your time with Vanessa will really help, I think…have the best time and Vanessa is a great person to help that to happen also……

Yes that's soooo true about @Santa's NaughtiNess

Every moment spent with her is a pleasure. She's just so lovely. We have very similar tastes and get on like a house on fire. She's so warm funny and enthusiastic. I'm proud to call her my friend I value our times together cos they go so fast.