[Kate!]

Originally Posted by ThomasC

And was part of this dealing with your trauma?

To escape? To cope with the loss of your Mum? Your Nan?

It's good that you can identify why he would feel abandoned.

You chose your new partner over him when he needed you most and at such a young age. ....BUT that's how you dealt with your trauma....and we all make mistakes.

I'm glad that he has no longer blocked you off Facebook. This is probably his way of slowly allowing you back it into his life, but he's just not quite ready to engage. He has a lot of barriers up, but he's made the first step.

Onwards and upwards Kate x

Thanks Thomas. The bolded bit.....yes maybe in retrospect but I did consult him before I committed to the move and he said if I was happy and secure then it was fine by him otherwise I'd have reconsidered I think. I do see your point. Xx