[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

No..I wish. Its the same one I have had since she was a week old. The very same one who said she wasnt putting on weight fast enough and I should force feed her. The same one who told me not to bother trying to breastfeed as formula milk is exactly the same(Total lie). The same one who told me that if I didnt WAKE HER UP in the middle of the night for a bottle, she would end up back in hospital with jaundice..as all babies have to eat every 3 hours...

She talks utter **** and I wouldnt even bother going along if I didnt want to check her weight and stuff. Then again if I stopped going along they would probably start coming out to visit me

I actually just stopped going eventually. I could tell my baby was healthy and happy, so I didn't need to go and get made feel ****e on a regular basis.

They did come to the house to do Lara's 2 year development check.. The hv showed her a book to see if she could say any of the words and she went through the whole book and said every word. The hv said her speech was very advanced for 2 yrs old . Lara disappeared and came back with her dummy in her mouth (which I'd hidden as they were a big nono at the time) The hv's face fell and she questioned me about it, made me feel crap, then said "no child should use a dummy at 2 years old as it stops their speech developing properly"

Wtf.. She had just said her speech was advanced