[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Razor

Polyamorous, what a daft bint she is basically calling herself a slut.

Such a revolting and derogatory term that men don't have to put up with

[Razor]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Such a revolting and derogatory term that men don't have to put up with

You can get male sluts the word isnt just reserved for the female race.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Razor

You can get male sluts the word isnt just reserved for the female race.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

[Razor]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

Yeah men are called sluts all the time. Its a common term around my neck of the woods.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

Men are known has Players or Studs but there really male *****s

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Men are known has Players or Studs but there really male *****s

players and studs are almost like praising terms though compared to slut and *****

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

I would say polyamourous = pretentious

Or Greedy cow !!

[Jason.]

I like Jade.
But come on, polyamorous is pretty much the same meaning as promiscuity, and that word is linked to negative connotations like slut, *****, bimbo, slag, tart, tramp, etc.

Polyamarous is just a nice way of saying your a slut.

[Liam-]

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

Particularly disappointing coming from other women

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

I wasn't shaming her. She can be whoever she chooses to be. I like her as a person. She's lovely.

But she's a slut. Nothing wrong with that.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

I wasn't shaming her. She can be whoever she chooses to be. I like her as a person. She's lovely.

But she's a slut. Nothing wrong with that.

The word slut is derogatory so by default you are shaming her just be using it

[Liam-]

There's nothing wrong with women enjoying a multitude of finer things in life, be it expensive shopping, fine wine or fine ass men, as long as everything is safe and consensual, then everything is good and no-one else's business.

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The word slut is derogatory so by default you are shaming her just be using it

I'm being honest. She said she has a number of sexual partners without commitment. That is the definition of a slut.

It is an offensive word, but It's who she is, and I have no problem with that. So I'm not shaming her. I wasn't looking down on her.

It's like how Helen was a prostitute, last summer. That's often used as a derogatory term. But calling Helen one, isn't because she was one.
Same thing with Jade.

[Kizzy]

If you're not in a relationship but don't like casual sex then this would be a good description of the period inbetween before you meet someone I guess.
Slut is such a derogatory disrespectful term :/

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

There's nothing wrong with women enjoying a multitude of finer things in life, be it expensive shopping, fine wine or fine ass men, as long as everything is safe and consensual, then everything is good and no-one else's business.

I never said it's wrong.

It is my and others business considering she's revealed it on a reality show, watched by over a million people. So we're free to discuss it.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

I'm being honest. She said she has a number of sexual partners without commitment. That is the definition of a slut.

It is an offensive word, but It's who she is, and I have no problem with that. So I'm not shaming her. I wasn't looking down on her.

It's like how Helen was a prostitute, last summer. That's often used as a derogatory term. But calling Helen one, isn't because she was one.
Same thing with Jade.

Well it's not really, the word Prostitute is actually the proper term for that particular profession, calling her a ***** would have been fifty times worse, don't you think? and the reason for that is it's a slang, derogatory word.

For me there's a massive difference between saying someone is promiscuous and saying someone is a slut. Slut implies someone is nasty and unclean as well

[Northern Monkey]

Where i'm from we don't say 'slut' we usually use 'slag heap' or 'spunk bucket' .Not sure how derogatory those terms are?

[Jason.]

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

[Liam-]

Jade is not a slut, she is a spiritually free woman who doesn't enjoy being monogamous, so she uses her power as an independent woman to do as and who she pleases, when she wants to do so.

I wish more women would be open about this sort of thing, but this has proven that they can't be due to fear of being branded a 'slag' or a 'slut' because they have the same sexual appetite as men do, but apparently aren't allowed to.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

Super

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well it's not really the word Prostitute is actually the proper term for that particular profession, calling her a ***** would have been fifty times worse, don't you think? and the reason for that is it's a slang, derogatory word.

For me there's a massive difference between saying someone is promiscuous and saying someone is a slut. Slut implies someone is nasty and unclean as well

The definition of promiscuity
Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners, without commitment.

The definition of slut
A woman who has many casual sexual partners.

On Google define, it says the synonym of a slut is a promiscuous woman.

You say the word slut implies dirty and nasty. Yes, implies. But it doesn't mean that by definition. That's just the stigma attached to the word, which I didn't mean.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by BB6

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

I don't agree with that term either, it suggests her choices are indiscriminate and or immoral

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

The definition of promiscuity
Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners, without commitment.

The definition of slut
A woman who has many casual sexual partners.

On Google define, it says the synonym of a slut is a promiscuous woman.

You say the word slut implies dirty and nasty. Yes, implies. But it doesn't mean that by definition. That's just the stigma attached to the word, which I didn't mean.

also, you may not have meant it that way but just using the word reinforces the stigma imo


slut
slʌt/Submit
nounderogatory
1.
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
synonyms: promiscuous woman; More
2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by BB6

The definition of promiscuity
Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners, without commitment.

The definition of slut
A woman who has many casual sexual partners.

On Google define, it says the synonym of a slut is a promiscuous woman.

You say the word slut implies dirty and nasty. Yes, implies. But it doesn't mean that by definition. That's just the stigma attached to the word, which I didn't mean.

promiscuous
prəˈmɪskjʊəs/Submit
adjective
1.
having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.
"she's a wild, promiscuous, good-time girl"
synonyms: licentious, sexually indiscriminate, immoral, unchaste, debauched, dissolute, dissipated, profligate, of easy virtue, fast; More
antonyms: chaste, moral, pure
2.
demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual.
"the city fathers were promiscuous with their honours"
synonyms: indiscriminate, undiscriminating, unselective, random, irresponsible, haphazard, thoughtless, unthinking, unconsidered, casual, careless
"the promiscuous popping of antibiotics hasn't helped his T-cell count"