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Originally Posted by Cherie
Because quite possibly as it is a professional site she wasn't to happy that he overlooked all her academic and work achievements and focused on her looks? as an introductory email on that particular site it was insulting, maybe he got the site confused with match.com  |
I agree with that, not because I think it's a problem that he complimented her picture, but because that's ALL he did. If he had messaged her in the spirit of what the site is supposed to be about, to make that sort of contact, written a big message focusing on her professional expertise and with a good reason that they should be contacts, and then he had added at the bottom "Oh, by the way, great profile picture!"... Then I don't see why it should be a problem.
However, the fact that he quite clearly had no interest in messaging her other than to creep, is what makes it a problem. It's not Tinder.
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