[lostalex]

it depends how old the daughter is i think. If she is old enough to use the toilet then she is old enough to wash herself. I'd say potty training is the age you also teach her to wash herself.

If any man is specially WANTING to wash his daughter instead of encouraging and teaching her to do it herself then i would be suspicious.

I'd say if the daughter is not able to wash herself by the age of 3 or 4 then there is something suspicious going on. He can sit on the toilet and direct her what to do without being naked and touching her.