[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Conzors

Hi!

I'm sitting at home alone on a Saturday night moping in my own misery because out of the very few friends I have - nobody wants to go out.

They are either parents, sick, have other plans, have partners, or just not replying to my texts. Part of it is my fault - I have been **** at keeping in contact or I think I become too good for them and I didnt focus on making friends as a child because I was too self absorbed.

I'm different now but i'm scared its too late for me to make friends. I'm too annoying, I'm too needy, I'm too emotional and I want attention (doesnt everyone?) and that is too much for a friend or a potential boyf to handle.

Anyways - My question to you is - what makes you annoying? offputting? and what have you done to try and change it?

Looking forward to seeing some amazing answers!!

xx

P.S I may have had a drink or six so sorry for the randomness.

Nah....it's all part of growing up unfortunately. You won't necessarily follow the same path as your friends....those with kids or different priorities start to move in different circles but you either find different going out mates or catch up with them eventually. Maintain contact with your real friends....even if they can't go out with you now because of commitments....things will change