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Originally Posted by Ammi

...hmmm, I don't know..I think that maybe the aura that Dave has is that he's confident in who he is and being who he is/in being himself...I don't think it works, trying to be something or someone that we aren't because it's never going to make us happy to try or feel as though we're being true to ourselves...and that maybe makes it harder to 'fit' anyway, harder for people to get to know us etc and talk on deeper levels because it would give off a confusion of our personality or mask it...which wouldn't be condusive to deeper friendships...don't adjust who you are because you don't need to..you're perfectly fine just as you are...but not everyone 'fits' with us and our personalities... there will though be people/friends who do for all of us and those people are different for all of us...and those people are the ones who will just fit perfectly without any changes feeling necessary...indeed, they wouldn't want us to change at all....not one bit....

I am a confident person and I have no qualms about who I am. I just try and be more amicable and interchangeable from one group to another.

I think it's just the situation I've landed in. Flitting from job to job (previously), being a dark moody Slipknot fan in my late teens early 20's and sitting in my bedroom playing games while others were out in pubs bars and clubs.

Now they're all married with kids.

Like I say, my best friend had kind of a meltdown and wanted to hand the reigns over to the Army but instead handed them over to Joseph Smith and the bishop of his temple. He was a good guy now he's a shadow of who he was.

It's odd. I've got plenty of money and boys toys that we all would have killed for a few years ago. Now the topic of conversation is which huggies are best and how fast their kids are growing and not motorbikes or fast cars or huge tv's and surround sound systems can penetrate the conversation about puke, poo, screaming and how cute they are lol.