[Withano]

Oh for him to deceive?

[Northern Monkey]

I bet she wouldn't be bragging about it if he hadn't have been happy about it and left her for being a lying loony bitch.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

I bet she wouldn't be bragging about it if he hadn't have been happy about it and left her for being a lying loony bitch.

Of course not, in that case it would be

'We planned a baby then he ****ed off and left me with it' or
'It was a total accident and I was left holding the baby'

Money please.

Ugh I actually feel so strongly about this I think I need to stop replying as its actually riling me a bit that anyone can think this is even slightly ok.

[12bigbrother12]

This thread made me happy to be gay.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by 12bigbrother12

This thread made me happy to be gay.

Let's make it about having sex without divulging STD's and sexual history so the gays can join in too.

[jennyjuniper]

This is so wrong. I had a male friend who this happened to. They had three children, she didn't work, so the pressure was all on him to provide for the family and he just didn't see how they could afford another child. She got pregnant anyway by stopping contraception without telling him and so he went and had a vascectomy without telling her!! That fourth child, incidentally is just as much loved as the other three, but it's really about being honest with each other.
If women want an equal marriage, then any major decisions must be made 50/50.

[Beso]

My first girlfriend pretended to be pregnant so i wouldnt finish with her.

I must admit it broke my heart finding out she had lied.

[ebandit]

pheeeew! it all worked out well

of course it was up to her...she would carry the bairn/be a single mother

it would be wrong if she then expected upkeep from her partner

Mark L

[sampvt]

Just shows what a desperate and manipulative slag she is. This will follow her around like a bad smell and leaves her wide open to some serious trolling now. Daft bitch didnt think this through so well did she. Oh by the way, OF COURSE SHE WAS WRONG.

[Ashley.]

I've seen this all too many times with women. And then they feel victimized and betrayed when the man doesn't wish to stick around... I don't think it's ever right to deceive someone you love in any way, shape or form.

[fitz2k2]

didn't all for the money.typical women

[RichardG]

i couldn't believe she was being so open about it

[Crimson Dynamo]

Its a despicable thing to do

[Cal.]

[Niamh.]

No it's vile behaviour

[DouglasS]

This is disgusting, and people who think it's okay behaviour have to be deluded, I'm sorry but its true

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by DouglasS

This is disgusting, and people who think it's okay behaviour have to be deluded, I'm sorry but its true

God forbid blokes should be expected to take any responsibility for birth control!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

God forbid blokes should be expected to take any responsibility for birth control!

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

I agree with that but I think she said they had been together for 3 weeks or something, if that is the case he really should have protected himself if he didn't want kids you don't know anyone after 3 weeks

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I agree with that but I think she said they had been together for 3 weeks or something, if that is the case he really should have protected himself if he didn't want kids you don't know anyone after 3 weeks

I thought it was 3 months but maybe i'm wrong

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

Well, the Pill isnt 100% and if she got pregnant because of that 1% then yeah that would be an accident that both are responsible for but that wasnt the case here, she fooled him into thinking she was taking the Pill but she wasnt

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

Nothing's 100% so that's neither here nor there.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

God forbid blokes should be expected to take any responsibility for birth control!

Who said they shouldn't?

We're talking about a woman claiming to be on the pill when she isn't?

[Beso]

Originally Posted by DouglasS

This is disgusting, and people who think it's okay behaviour have to be deluded, I'm sorry but its true

No need to apologise, we are mostly decent people here.