[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

God forbid blokes should be expected to take any responsibility for birth control!

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

I agree with that but I think she said they had been together for 3 weeks or something, if that is the case he really should have protected himself if he didn't want kids you don't know anyone after 3 weeks

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I agree with that but I think she said they had been together for 3 weeks or something, if that is the case he really should have protected himself if he didn't want kids you don't know anyone after 3 weeks

I thought it was 3 months but maybe i'm wrong

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well that's a different argument altogether tbf, yeah sure if it was a one night stand or whatever but if you're in a relationship with someone and your partner has told you that she's taking the pill, you should be able to trust that

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

Well, the Pill isnt 100% and if she got pregnant because of that 1% then yeah that would be an accident that both are responsible for but that wasnt the case here, she fooled him into thinking she was taking the Pill but she wasnt

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well, the Pill isnt 100% and if she got pregnant because of that 1% then yeah that would be an accident that both are responsible for but that wasnt the case here, she fooled him into thinking she was taking the Pill but she wasnt

Sorry, my point was that he should do his bit to protect himself if he didn't want to be a dad at that point. He shouldn't simply rely on the woman. If he does and it goes pear-shaped, for whatever reason, then he is also to blame. Any bloke daft enough to trust a girlfriend of 3 weeks/3months, especially one like Nicola, who clearly wanted to be a WAG and to grab herself a meal ticket deserves what he gets. It always takes two.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Particularly as the pill is not 100% - shouldn't both do the necessary.

Nothing's 100% so that's neither here nor there.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Nothing's 100% so that's neither here nor there.

Full hysterectomy...

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Full hysterectomy...

He should do it whilst she's asleep and say "just kidding Nic" when she wakes up.