[caprimint]

Hmm I guess it is selfish but I didn't really think too much of it. The only thing I'd say is that if she does want it to be abroad it should be because she genuinely wants it there and the experience/vibe of it rather than to see how much/who really cares about being there.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

1. I want my wedding to be abroad - so her family and friends are out of pocket to the tune of thousands

2. I want my wedding to be during the week - so you have to eat up your own personal holiday days to attend


what a selfish entitled person

This did seem a strange choice of thing to say, even if said in jest. Put alongside her comments about her photo - which she turned around to be about herself and her beauty contest, rather than remaining focused on the people in the picture, does give a certain impression of her. And didn’t Yinrun mention something about wanting to get to know the person behind the beauty contest winner, giving the impression that was Noky’s main topic of conversation.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

But wanting a wedding abroad is not a new concept. Plenty of people do it especially in hotspots like Greece and Italy

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

But wanting a wedding abroad is not a new concept. Plenty of people do it especially in hotspots like Greece and Italy

That wasn't the issue though it was her reasoning why she wanted it abroad and mid week.........to test how many people would put themselves out for her

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

That wasn't the issue though it was her reasoning why she wanted it abroad and mid week.........to test how many people would put themselves out for her

Oh right i missed that part of it I'll have to watch back then

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

Oh right i missed that part of it I'll have to watch back then

I don't think there's anything wrong with weddings abroad at all as long as the couple understand that some people won't be able to go because of money/childcare/work etc Judging them as not real friends because of that is very unfair I think

[Crimson Dynamo]

why is this such a hard concept for people to understand?