[RodHull]

Originally Posted by *Kate*

Vesuvius, could you read my post (Post number 63 on this page) Aaron is not an emotional bully, if you want an example of an emotional bully then just watch Jemma Palmer in action. And to repeat myself, I know what I am talking about.

Well said, Jemma messed with Fayes emotions more in the car crash few weeks she was in the house than the entire time Aaron has been there. Like you say Aaron is probably not aware of Fayes issues, and sometimes she totally overeacts to the things he does. This baffles him, which then sends him off in a mood, when Faye realises she has overeacted she then goes after him to 'make up' and the whole charade starts again.

If anyone should be blamed for Fayes mental state its her frankly horrible sister (and possibly mother) who spent her whole time putting Faye down, trying to make her feel ashamed, throwing snidy comments around and generally trying to make Faye feel small and steal her thunder. Jem couldnt bear it that Faye got on TV and had to ruin it for her... one of the vilest contestents this year imo, closely followed by Rebeckah and Tom

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Jemma messed with Fayes emotions more in the car crash few weeks she was in the house than the entire time Aaron has been there.

If anyone should be blamed for Fayes mental state its her frankly horrible sister (and possibly mother) who spent her whole time putting Faye down, trying to make her feel ashamed, throwing snidy comments around and generally trying to make Faye feel small and steal her thunder. Jem couldnt bear it that Faye got on TV and had to ruin it for her... one of the vilest contestents this year imo, closely followed by Rebeckah and Tom

Such short memories...

Faye has been an emotional wreck since day 1 of this series. It didn't start with Jem.

But still, whatever Faye is that doesn't change what Aaron is. She is obviously emotionally immature, insecure, and volatile and Aaron as a mature man should have seen that and not chosen her as his tactical fauxmance, ethically speaking.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by vesavius

Such short memories...

Faye has been an emotional wreck since day 1 of this series. It didn't start with Jem.

But still, whatever Faye is that doesn't change what Aaron is. She is obviously emotionally immature, insecure, and volatile and Aaron as a mature man should have seen that and not chosen her as his tactical fauxmance, ethically speaking.

You just shot your entire argument to pieces. Well done

You state Faye was a wreck from the start, therefore how on earth can it be down to Aaron. It DID start with Jem, it has been the pattern all Faye's life, the mother and sister emotionally destroyed the girl. Yes, I do agree with you partly however, that Faye is insecure and volatile, this is for the above reasons, yes, Jemma and Ma Palmer have a lot to answer for. Also, I don't believe the romance is fake, unfortunately though it won't be allowed to last once they get out, by guess who. Yep, the two witches again.

[flamingGalah!]

Completely out of order to call Aaron a 'bully', emotionally or otherwise...

[fitz2k2]

It kinda true..this is why he is single ...ladies man my ass

[fruit_cake]

Aaron's not an 'abusive husband' imo, that comment is ridiculously sensationalist.

[MTVN]

Ok everyone needs to calm it down in here, there is no need for posts like the above

[MTVN]

Deleted some posts in here, to reiterate:

Originally Posted by MTVN

Ok everyone needs to calm it down in here, there is no need for posts like the above

[alc09]

Oh dear Nicola McLean - I think this may be the last we see of her for a while, not because of that comment but because she has had to stoop so low to appear on BBBOTS.

Along with her arrogant cock of a husband, who is so good at football he has ended up in non league - I don't think we will be seeing/hearing much of them for a while.

[Vicky.]

Aaron is about as abusive as a feather duster...

[Suze]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Aaron is about as abusive as a feather duster...

That's so true

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Aaron is about as abusive as a feather duster...

That's funny..... because it's true.

[Beso]

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by parmnion

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

Rod,gotta hand it to you

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

What 'proof' or 'evidence' do you think can be provided past anecdotal?

Your obviously going to dismiss anything he says as 'vague' and 'meaningless'.

He is giving his view based off a stated personal experience, just as others have done in support of Aaron in this thread (which you have chosen to not call out obviously).

If you want me to give details of how Aaron's behaviour is passive aggressive and how he uses emotional blackmail to manipulate and control I will though of course. I have posted it before though so won't again unless thats what you are looking for.

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by parmnion

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

Yes, I would also like you to give some examples of which traits.

I was in a abusive relationship and I can tell you the nutter was absolutely nothing like Aaron!

[rusticgal]

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

[Gillian-73]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

I agree with all that! only i watch bots regularly for some reason, glutton for punishment

[Suze]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

Trouble is I don't think they will They just don't seem to act on anything or take responsibility for their's and others actions do they

[Bluerang1]

Are y'all always on?

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Bluerang1

Are y'all always on?

Only when i have a boring shift that I need to pass away

Hi Blue

[Bluerang1]

I don't even mean you. Everything said about Aaron becomes fanfare, though this one was quite bad. But if she said it about Jay, come on, barely anyone would care.

[Kazelle]

I laughed out loud at the comment. Aaron has to be the wimpiest guy ever. I doubt anyone could take the comment 'abusive husband' seriously. Someone can only mess with your mind if you allow them to. Faye's only allowing the back and forth games to continue because of the air time it's giving her.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazelle

I laughed out loud at the comment. Aaron has to be the wimpiest guy ever. I doubt anyone could take the comment 'abusive husband' seriously. Someone can only mess with your mind if you allow them to. Faye's only allowing the back and forth games to continue because of the air time it's giving her.

It's out of order to call anyone that. Not just Aaron.