[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I expect she gets it a lot. When I worked in bars the guys all thought I was there to be groped, they basically tried using my tits as stress balls. This was a LOT of guys too, not just random pervs. Kind of changed my opinion on stuff tbh, as many of the guys, I knew their ****ing wives

My boss (father in law now) said it was basically part of the job and I had to get used to it. **** that. I did resort to shouting in a full bar about perverts being perverts to shame them, but the other guys just found it funny (we rarely had women in through the day) so in the end with a few of them I would stamp on their feet or (once) hit them in the balls when they tried rubbing themselves on me when I was walking past.

Is violence the answer? Probably not, but it makes you feel a lot better, and if they are randomly groping people, they deserve all they get tbh.

Oddly enough,. once it became known that I was seeing Gav, they all stopped...and they apologized to HIM ffs.

Yeah this is the annoying bit and also why I asked about Northern Monkeys comment saying that the woman was wrong to do it but he would also punch a guy who did it to his g/f, it comes across like women are still looked at like objects who belong to someone, like you're fair game unless a man already has his claim on you or something