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Originally Posted by Dezzy

Because society doesn't want to blame a man for cheating when they can crucify a woman for lying.

I've always felt that Ben got off scott free and wondered why he wasn't treated similarly to Jermaine.

Ben, pursued someone that he knew was engaged, but he continued to pursue her knowing it might ruin a relationship and future marriage.

Also, even after he was openly told that they should be "friends" and go no further, he continued his pursuit

At his eviction, the woman got all the blame. It seemed as though Ben had a halo over his head and was all innocent and pure.