[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

No, Parm, your experience is nothing like the MJ case.
There was 2,5 years difference between you and your cousin. So you were almost peers. Not a kid and an adult more than twice his age.
What you describing is two kids/adolescents (?, don't know how old you both were) fooling around which some kids do. I'm sorry you feel he coerced you into it. But you didn't mind it at the time?
It seems to me you feel guilty you enjoyed gay sex in some form, but that's a different matter. Not your cousin's fault you can't come to terms you may be a little gay.
And before you shout at me, I had the same thing done to me by an older cousin.

Yeah it's not comparable with MJ when alleged abuse happened from aged 7 !! while MJ was a grown man . I just can't get my head around a 7 year old not reacting to a grown adult doing graphic disturbing things to him .

Plus the so called victims became adults and still didn't say anything about the abuse until NOW when they're in financial problems.