[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

This is making me sad Vicky, you guys need to go on some dates or buy some fluffy handcuffs or something.

#RelationshipAdvice #2022

TS lost to the world of relationship advice

[Cherie]

Is this you Sheriff,=? have you got pics of your ex because if you have I don't think you can be over her properly

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think it would be very odd to have photos of an ex up, maybe as part of a pic with the kids or something but I wouldn't be happy about it personally, not that Mr C has has any photos of his ex's and would rather gnaw his right hand off than have a FB account

Well yeah there's that too. Both of us deleted our Facebook accounts earlier this year. Awful things .

That said I couldn't tell you whether or not there were pictures of her with her ex still on hers? She was in a long term relationship before we got together and Facebook was around back then for a bit. I can't say it would have bothered me? I mean we got together when we were 19 (her) and 21 (me) so it would be sort of weird to be insecure about a relationship she had in her teens .

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Are you a Unicorn too, TS?

If he is, one of you send Vicky your handcuffs.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Is this you Sheriff,=? have you got pics of your ex because if you have I don't think you can be over her properly

No it’s not me, I know a couple of people that have this on there face book account.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Cherie

TS lost to the world of relationship advice

I said what would you really like? She said a divorce lol

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Well yeah there's that too. Both of us deleted our Facebook accounts earlier this year. Awful things .

That said I couldn't tell you whether or not there were pictures of her with her ex still on hers? She was in a long term relationship before we got together and Facebook was around back then for a bit. I can't say it would have bothered me? I mean we got together when we were 19 (her) and 21 (me) so it would be sort of weird to be insecure about a relationship she had in her teens .

oh yeah I agree, but it they were previously in a serious relationship with the ex or with them for years or something, I think its a bit odd, like you wouldn't have a framed photo of your ex at home so why would you have it on your FB

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

No it’s not me, I know a couple of people that have this on there face book account.

what are your thoughts on it, I guess you know the people well?

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Cherie

what are your thoughts on it, I guess you know the people well?

Yes I know them well, they are a lot younger than me, it’s a strange one, and I’m in decided on how I feel about it.

[user104658]

Obviously the real answer here is that there's no "rules" about it and if everyone involved is comfortable then it's no one else's business .

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Obviously the real answer here is that there's no "rules" about it and if everyone involved is comfortable then it's no one else's business .

This is true. It totally depends on the relationships of all those involved and what the couples boundaries are

[caprimint]

I don't post pictures on there with people, but if I did I wouldn't take my ex's down if I was with somebody else and I wouldn't expect them to either, it's like trying to erase your past

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

I don't post pictures on there with people, but if I did I wouldn't take my ex's down if I was with somebody else and I wouldn't expect them to either, it's like trying to erase your past

Depends on how the relationship ended I suppose, if it was bad, then why wouldn't you want to forget about it? and if he turned out to be a **** why would you want to be looking at photos of him?

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Depends on how the relationship ended I suppose, if it was bad, then why wouldn't you want to forget about it? and if he turned out to be a **** why would you want to be looking at photos of him?

I see what you mean, but if I fell in love with someone and enjoyed our time together then I'd find it very difficult to be 'bitter' about it. I've experienced something a bit like this and yet we still occasionally message. Probably depends on the people though, I know most people see it differently

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

I see what you mean, but if I fell in love with someone and enjoyed our time together then I'd find it very difficult to be 'bitter' about it. I've experienced something a bit like this and yet we still occasionally message. Probably depends on the people though, I know most people see it differently

No one is saying you have to be bitter but say for example, your b/f cheated on you or went off with your best friend, you might not enjoy looking at photos of him

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Obviously the real answer here is that there's no "rules" about it and if everyone involved is comfortable then it's no one else's business .

well of course, its no one else's business, its just people giving opinions on topic posted on the forum

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

No one is saying you have to be bitter but say for example, your b/f cheated on you or went off with your best friend, you might not enjoy looking at photos of him

Possibly, idk it's hard to say not being in the situation but I think in time you probably wouldn't care anyway especially if you're with someone else

[Josy]

I've been together with my husband for over 20 years so fb wasn't even thought of then, meaning no pictures of ex's on there.

I guess it depends on the person, if the ex is still a good friend then I dont see it being a big deal really

[thesheriff443]

Considering the majority of affairs are with someone in friends/family/ work circle, I’d say it truly depends on the people involved.

But how many times have you heard of someone sleeping with their ex.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Possibly, idk it's hard to say not being in the situation but I think in time you probably wouldn't care anyway especially if you're with someone else

You might not care but you probably still wouldn't keep photos hanging around

[smudgie]

No way.
All my profile pics are of nature.
Been with hubby before PC s were about, never mind facebook
I have had a few friends requests from past friends with benefits, but wouldn’t dream of adding them.

[bots]

i don't have any photos on fb, but if i did i would photoshop a custard pie over their face ... sorted