[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Of course but normally people get into relationships and are sexually attracted to each other, if the other person knows that's off the table or you're just going through the motions for their benefit then that's fine but not making your partner aware that that is the case is deceitful and hurtful

Sexuality is complicated, I was once attracted to women, I imagine the majority of gay people were at one time, attracted to the opposite sex, sexuality develops, yes, some people get into straight relationships out of shame to hide their secret, but a lot of people take time to realise who they are, it doesn’t mean he’s done it to purposely mislead her, it’s not black and white with these situations, yes she might have had a shock when she was told, but on the other hand she could have always suspected and was happy to live with it, they clearly had a sexual relationship.

I always find it gross when there’s a story about a gay person, most of the time it always end up coming back around to ‘aww, but what about straight people?’