[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I agree however most fetishes are benign and perfectly acceptable with other consenting adults so I don't think even calling it a fetish is helpful. Most fetishes pose no risk of harm.

It also opens up an absolutely massive can of worms in the trans debate because (duck and cover) - there is true trans rights stuff that concerns actual transexuals and gender identity, and then there is a side of trans that is heavily sexualised and a clear fetish. That's a topic that is absolutely RED hot, of course.

Fetish was the only word I could think of to describe it. I don't think it's particularly a bad thing to describe it as a fetish since not all fetishes are benign. There's a lot of dark fetishes out there that simply are not acceptable. If there's a better word for it then I'd gladly call it that.