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Originally Posted by rusticgal

If that was my wife I wouldnt wait 6 months to do something about it...if she was on the verge of 'doing something' AND she was heavily pregnant (bearing in mind her mental health was also threatening the life of my unborn child) I would be on the case IMMEDIATLY...instead of being embarrassed to say anything.

You can't say what you would do in that situation unless you have been in that situation, and even then you can only say what you would do because you are not that person nor have you had that person's life. You're building yourself an imaginary high-horse.

If I had to hazard a guess, if Harry could see history repeating itself and with Diana/Meghan comparisons, he may well have been in a state of anxiety/denial about it and putting energy into pretending it wasn't happening. I mean judge him for that if you want, but I personally wouldn't.