[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I stay out of the Meghan threads now Kaz as all that ever could possibly be said has been but there is definitely hostility on BOTH sides. Both sides accuse each other of venom and being blinded by love/hate and I have seen both sides get personal.

I agree to a point Annie but I honestly have not, seen anyone say they hate her. They just have different opinions and as soon as they do the hate word is rolled out as though we are terrible human beings. You can imo point out things you don't agree with or like without hating people but yes I agree best to stay out of them

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I agree to a point Annie but I honestly have not, seen anyone say they hate her. They just have different opinions and as soon as they do the hate word is rolled out as though we are terrible human beings. You can imo point out things you don't agree with or like without hating people but yes I agree best to stay out of them

Hate / love are just words and its all just semantics, I don't really get hung up on the words people use. You can clearly see those who no matter what she did would deride her and equally those who no matter what she did would defend her.

I'm like you, very much on the fence. She has done nothing to offend me personally, she is just her. My ambivalent opinion may change if the bullying accusations are founded as I abhor bullies but if they are founded my opinion of the Royal Family business will also suffer as they should have done something. But that's a whole other conversation and I have packed lunch to make and belligerent 10 year old to get sorted for school

You have a good day.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Hate / love are just words and its all just semantics, I don't really get hung up on the words people use. You can clearly see those who no matter what she did would deride her and equally those who no matter what she did would defend her.

I'm like you, very much on the fence. She has done nothing to offend me personally, she is just her. My ambivalent opinion may change if the bullying accusations are founded as I abhor bullies but if they are founded my opinion of the Royal Family business will also suffer as they should have done something. But that's a whole other conversation and I have packed lunch to make and belligerent 10 year old to get sorted for school

You have a good day.

Good Post Annie and summed up well. You have a good day too and Lol I have 2 packed lunches to do too, the joys of motherhood xx

[Ammi]

...I agree that these Meghan and Harry threads...(...and it’s more Meghan...)...are really something that achieve very little..(if anything..)...positive anymore...although they obviously have a popularity because they’re so hugely posted in so as much as many are feeling all Meghan and Harry'd out, there are obviously those who don’t feel that....when threads are closed, it’s understandable to see why because (...from all sides it’s become personal...)...there is no higher ground that any of us can take with that, I think...but it also would obviously add to emotions or frustrations etc...?...so if a similar veined thread is opened the next day, etc...personal stuff just carries into that other thread and then that other one and then that other one etc...maybe letting the thread run and letting it wear itself out organically would be a thing as well..?...it’s a difficult call, I know...

[Cherie]

Can I just say as someone who posts in these threads, not everyone gets personal, some people can actually post without doing that.

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Can I just say as someone who posts in these threads, not everyone gets personal, some people can actually post without doing that.

No one said everyone did.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

No one said everyone did.

Just making the point it's the same people all the time, and tbh the word hater means nothing to me know it is so over used on TiBB , with 'living rent free in your head' coming in a close second

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Cherie

not everyone gets personal, some people can actually post without doing that.

...said Cherie, getting personal

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

...said Cherie, getting personal

just stating facts

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Can I just say as someone who posts in these threads, not everyone gets personal, some people can actually post without doing that.

Well we all know who they are...

Personally I just dont bother to read certain posts anymore because I recognise people that hold a decent debate and those that cant....if they dont get a reaction then they might just go away