[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

"Violent porn" doesn't refer to sub/dom, it refers to slapping/choking/spitting/gagging, 99% male-on-female, 99% consent "grey area", 99% male viewership, 100% toxic.

Slapping, choking, spitting, gagging I would consider to be quite normal during sex tbh.

I am not into any of that, but I would imagine a lot of people are and would be turned on by it.

That would actually be quite tame even. If you are happy with that then so be it.

As an adult if you told me that i barely consented to that when both partners were happy to do so then I would be outraged.

But I think we're talking about different things, different audiences and an industry where some probably don't have a choice because they can't afford not to.