[Vicky.]

I dont ask for it back off anyone actually. I just kinda expect it if they said 'til X date'. Then would sit and silently fume a bit if I needed it and didnt get it, but then get over it. Hence only ever those I am quite close to so I dont get too annoyed

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I dont ask for it back off anyone actually. I just kinda expect it if they said 'til X date'. Then would sit and silently fume a bit if I needed it and didnt get it, but then get over it. Hence only ever those I am quite close to so I dont get too annoyed

Same. I don't ask for it back.
I gave money to my sister when she was going through a hard time. I just wish she asked for help earlier. I had no idea she was struggling financially.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Same. I don't ask for it back.
I gave money to my sister when she was going through a hard time. I just wish she asked for help earlier. I had no idea she was struggling financially.

I have had to say a few times to my sister that I really do not want it back. She still feels like she has to give me it. But I am the same. When I have been skint and shes said just keep it..I feel I have to pay it anyway even though I know she means it when she says she doesnt want it. Its kinda weird how our brains work like that sometimes