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michael21 · 13-10-2021, 11:36 AM

Welcome back I was thinking on Monday where geordie shore at

arista · 13-10-2021, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Officially, 'noone knows'. But it was my husband or someone on his behalf. Thats only half of it, theres been so much drama. Theres also been a fake facebook made claiming to be his new partner, giving me public abuse...trying to cause trouble between me and people I now have..and trying to cause upset with me and my family too. Failed on both counts really. I have been physically stalked. I have had the social called to tell them that I am a bad mother as I 'blocked the father on facebook'

Crying calls from his family. Endless abuse via email, facebook and text each claiming to be people who are not him but those 'close to him'. I had 'I love you' screamed at me in the street which was horrific and embarassing. Its been a rollercoaster for sure.

TLDR; Gavin. But he claims not him

OK I guess that all ads up
I am glad you are Happy now
that matters so much more.

AnnieK · 13-10-2021, 12:04 PM

Welcome back Vicky

hijaxers · 13-10-2021, 12:07 PM

Hi Vicky

how nice is it to see you back and sounding so much happier and i'm sure you'll have a fab meet up with Nimah and her lovely hubby.

Vicky. · 13-10-2021, 12:21 PM

I genuinely feel so much better again for letting it all out. And people cant whinge like on facebook as they can easily just not open the thread full of my waffle and lifestory. Its like having an online journal that talks back sometimes

Jessica. · 13-10-2021, 12:29 PM

You deserve to be happy, I'm glad you and your children are in a better environment. I was surprised that you ever got married to him after everything you had shared, especially that time you had to stay at your dad's to be away from him like ten(?) years ago, it' was rough to see you go through.

Niamh. · 13-10-2021, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica.

You deserve to be happy, I'm glad you and your children are in a better environment. I was surprised that you ever got married to him after everything you had shared, especially that time you had to stay at your dad's to be away from him like ten(?) years ago, it' was rough to see you go through.

Yeah, god that seems like a lifetime ago now, back in the ******** days

Niamh. · 13-10-2021, 12:31 PM

Tiny Chat

Vicky. · 13-10-2021, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica.

You deserve to be happy, I'm glad you and your children are in a better environment. I was surprised that you ever got married to him after everything you had shared, especially that time you had to stay at your dad's to be away from him like ten(?) years ago, it' was rough to see you go through.

I know, it all seems crazy in hindsight now that I am out of it. That would be the time he pretended to be me on msn or wherever we were talking at the time, when I had my bust lip? God. Its honestly like I have woken up from some kinda dream that took over my life for..many years. Its such a weird experience too as there was years and years of gaslighting crap, which still has me doubting my own thoughts at times. I was an expert at spotting toxic relationships and giving advice to friends in such situations, but seemed totally blinded to it all when I was in the middle of it.

bots · 13-10-2021, 12:34 PM

Welcome to TiBB Vicky !

Cherie · 13-10-2021, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Officially, 'noone knows'. But it was my husband or someone on his behalf. Thats only half of it, theres been so much drama. Theres also been a fake facebook made claiming to be his new partner, giving me public abuse...trying to cause trouble between me and people I now have..and trying to cause upset with me and my family too. Failed on both counts really. I have been physically stalked. I have had the social called to tell them that I am a bad mother as I 'blocked the father on facebook'

Crying calls from his family. Endless abuse via email, facebook and text each claiming to be people who are not him but those 'close to him'. I had 'I love you' screamed at me in the street which was horrific and embarassing. Its been a rollercoaster for sure.

TLDR; Gavin. But he claims not him

Bring back Jeremy Kyle and the lie detector tests

Vicky. · 13-10-2021, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie

Bring back Jeremy Kyle and the lie detector tests

Dont even joke. When I accused him of it, he offered to take a lie detector test

I laughed and walked away

Redway · 13-10-2021, 01:03 PM

Welcome back.

Have you tried (full-spectrum) CBD for your pain?

Vicky. · 13-10-2021, 01:06 PM

I did but it didnt work tbh but I may have bought fake stuff. Never tried it again since discovering my..bandaid that I am using now. Will stick to this for pain really, and just hope docs find the bloody problem and fix it. Am functioning a lot better than I thought I would mind. It helps a lot that between doses of children, I get the break when they are at school for downtime, or sleeptime if I am exhausted from pain. Since this pain started I worried that I would never be any good for them on my own. Was another part of the reason I stayed in my marriage for so long when I knew I didnt love him anymore and hadnt for ages. Harsh as that sounds.

Redway · 13-10-2021, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

I genuinely feel so much better again for letting it all out. And people cant whinge like on facebook as they can easily just not open the thread full of my waffle and lifestory. Its like having an online journal that talks back sometimes

Sometimes virtual friends are easier to vibe with and open up to than “real-life” mates so I know what you mean. For all the issues with this forum at the moment what happens on TiBB tends to stay on TiBB (for the most part) so you did right to open up to us a bit.

Beso · 13-10-2021, 01:20 PM

Is it fibromyalgia vicky?

smudgie · 13-10-2021, 01:22 PM

Great to see you here again Vicky.
Really good that you are sorting your life and going forward so positively.
Love reading your posts, always honest and open.x

Vicky. · 13-10-2021, 01:22 PM

No idea what it is. It doesnt seem to fit with fibro symptoms though as I dont feel general exhaustion, the exhaustion is just from being in pain so much(and subsequent acting fine, so people dont see how much pain there is)? And its not all my joints or anything its one specific area always. Has consultants quite baffled as all my blood works has showed inflammation since it started, yet scans show **** all. Its odd for sure. But I do have a coping mechanism for it now so try not to dwell on it too much really, and just hope they cure it at some stage!