How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

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How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

View Poll Results: What are your deal-breakers when it comes to forgiving and how easy is it for you?

I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much

I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much
	0	0%

Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t

42.86%

Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t
	3	42.86%

I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people)

14.29%

I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people)
	1	14.29%

So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything

14.29%

So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything
	1	14.29%

^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point

14.29%

^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point
	1	14.29%

I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that

I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that
	0	0%

Mixed/can’t decide/other

14.29%

Mixed/can’t decide/other
	1	14.29%

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26-07-2022, 04:38 PM

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Redway

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Redway

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But no, (on a more serious note) I think I have the opposite problem to you (I have my fair share of internal baggage/quirks but Asperger’s isn’t exactly one of them). I play the game for a whole (sometimes not even that intentionally) and see too many shades of grey in-between and wait for people to really cross lines with me (depending on how close they are to me, obviously) before I let them go and at that point there really is no turning back. I like to think of myself as a nice guy at the core but I definitely don’t forget even if I do forgive eventually.

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Last edited by Redway; 26-07-2022 at 04:39 PM.

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