So in a different thread, Oliver said contra points had been cancelled. I had no idea who this person was, so I YT'd them.
Turns out she's a trans woman who makes vids. I watched this vid of hers last night that I think actually provides a perspective that a lot of the forum could do with watching - she points out some of the problems with the trans community - talks about the twitter mob, but also provides a perspective on some of the bigotry issues that I've previously mentioned myself. It's an hour and a half, so prob a bit too long for a lot of folks, but it's there if you want to watch it.