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Old 08-01-2023, 10:43 PM #26
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I miss her so much.
You are one of, if not my fave member of this forum. All the games you set up, your love of football.

If you ever need a chat, no matter the time, im here for you mate.

I never prey, but i shall for you tonight Xx
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mum in 2020 to Dementia….you know it’s coming but it still does not soften the impact when it actually happens.
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I’m so sorry to hear that, Calderyon.
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I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

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When i lost someone close to me, 3 some years ago. I found a genre of music that helps you think. Reflect. It's alone music. It helps you build back up through the pain and tears.

Maybe sh!t for you now, and corny.

If you get a round to listening to this, imagine she is listening too. And in a better place.



Much love brother!
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I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.
You all tried to help her, it was her time, you tried to save her and that will be a comfort in time
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Sounds like you're a very close knit family and you did a wonderful job caring for her these last few years, hopefully you have a lot of happy memories you can cherish
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I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avsil.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.
You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.
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You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.
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Completely devastated.

Something terrible happened today.

Aww that’s so sad - I’m lost for words


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Really sad devastating news ,I'm so sorry xx.
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Really sorry to read this Cald.
Thinking of you.
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I'm sorry to hear that Calderyon.

I think that anyone would feel like you in a situation like this, it's understandable imo.
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So sorry to hear this cald.

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Oh Cald, I'm so sorry for your loss. Alzeihemers is such a cruel disease, your mother was a lucky lady to have you all caring for her these last few years and she's at peace now, it probably doesn't help to hear that right now though I know
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i'm really sorry to hear that Caldy, i know you and i dislike each other but i would be heartless (which i'm not at all) if i wouldn't post a comforting message in here, a from me to you
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Clad...

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. When i lost someone close to me, i was a wreck, still kinda am. But it's ok to feel, it's ok to cry, it's ok to shout and scream.

We will always be in the same boat. We all go. I found hope in knowing we all have time. Every single person in the world. All we have is time. Your Mother is an Angel now. She is there, every time you look up. Talk to her. And know one day you will meet again!

"all those moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain"

But you hold those moments dear. This is what makes us human!

Much love mate.
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Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.
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Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.
Unfortunately there's no way around grief, you have to go through it
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Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.
Gosh only just reading about your loss Cald andd i offer my sincerest condolenses to you , your brother and father, also your wider family and friends. Talk about her with them and remember good times, the pain is unbearable and you'll doubtless find it hard to sleep so grab naps when you can, my heart goes out to you for your loss.
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Try distracting yourself from the pain by listening to music, watching your favourite films etc. Time will pass and a little bit of the edge will come off.
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