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View Poll Results: What values do you primarily align with?
Authenticity and lofty moral idealism 0 0%
Authenticity and lofty moral idealism
0 0%
Humanitarianism 0 0%
Humanitarianism
0 0%
Creative freedom 1 20.00%
Creative freedom
1 20.00%
Understanding 0 0%
Understanding
0 0%
Building and fine-tuning systems 1 20.00%
Building and fine-tuning systems
1 20.00%
Just exploration of ideas (particularly-intellectual or not) and experiences 1 20.00%
Just exploration of ideas (particularly-intellectual or not) and experiences
1 20.00%
Having a properly fun time (while I’m/you’re still young enough at least) 0 0%
Having a properly fun time (while I’m/you’re still young enough at least)
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Responsibility 0 0%
Responsibility
0 0%
Helping/supporting people (through healthcare, charity work, etc.) 0 0%
Helping/supporting people (through healthcare, charity work, etc.)
0 0%
Doing well in business 0 0%
Doing well in business
0 0%
Social harmony (not so much on a reform scale as between trusted mates) 0 0%
Social harmony (not so much on a reform scale as between trusted mates)
0 0%
Family 1 20.00%
Family
1 20.00%
True love (if you don’t think you’ve found it already) 0 0%
True love (if you don’t think you’ve found it already)
0 0%
Honestly, I’m just trying to get by most days. No grand values or tight ambitions 0 0%
Honestly, I’m just trying to get by most days. No grand values or tight ambitions
0 0%
Good/better health 1 20.00%
Good/better health
1 20.00%
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Old 10-01-2023, 11:39 PM #1
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I had the values of honesty and hardwork instilled from a very early age …

At least /worst I’m able to sleep with a clear conscience ( if the leg pain allowed me to )


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Do you find that you being on the spectrum makes you value that kind of uncompromising honesty more than the average person anyway?
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Do you find that you being on the spectrum makes you value that kind of uncompromising honesty more than the average person anyway?

Very much so .. .. I am a perfectionist so I’m constantly striving for perfection but I have sooooo many flaws and that’s very difficult to cope with ..


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Yeah, I only strive for perfection in cleaning. Otherwise I can refine myself but not to the point where I’m killing myself over any minor defects or flaws (which everyone has).
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And even in cleanliness I’m not always all that. I still wear face-masks and carry antibacterial hand-gel and stuff with me when I’m not in the bathroom bleaching stuff so there’s no question of me not getting a 99.9-something% pass-rate in most areas of hygiene but in terms of how I live day-to-day I am somewhat cluttered (I’m more clean than personally-organised in a way that would look much better than average to others). You just can’t win, you know.
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And even in cleanliness I’m not always all that. I still wear face-masks and carry antibacterial hand-gel and stuff with me when I’m not in the bathroom bleaching stuff so there’s no question of me not getting a 99.9-something% pass-rate in most areas of hygiene but in terms of how I live day-to-day I am somewhat cluttered (I’m more clean than personally-organised in a way that would look much better than average to others). You just can’t win, you know.

I have a man-cave and ideally I like it to be pristine but of late things have been complicated and it’s being used as a dumping ground for all my precious gadget related stuff and also the hoarded stuff - so currently it looks like Aladdin’s Cave with stuff crammed in everywhere all around my PC and chair .

I can cope with this chaos temporarily - as it’s MY chaos

One day I’ll sort everything out


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Right.

I should have added .. maybe



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