[Beso]

Originally Posted by Redway

That sounds like such a rough ordeal (involving your son). Is there anything you do to help you when the grief and resentment hits (drinking whiskey doesn’t count, let’s be honest)?

But in my case they have names, yeah. I know exactly who they are.

Let's just say I cant swing a punch like I used to, so my face isn't as handsome as it once was.

But that was in the past, things are improving now. Om lucky I've never had a very close friend that I've ended up hating, they've all been really cool.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Let's just say I cant swing a punch like I used to, so my face isn't as handsome as it once was.

But that was in the past, things are improving now. Om lucky I've never had a very close friend that I've ended up hating, they've all been really cool.

I protected two of the people involved/on my hate-list so much in the end but they didn’t deserve a single iota of it. Sometimes I wish I would’ve just left them to the wolves and let them take a good beating. It wasn’t my mess to sort out (it was just one of the many issues with them) and the stress of it all affected my health badly but without me it’s unlikely that one of them would still be alive. I regret that now. He thought it was all fine and that no-one wanted to hurt him but they did. They did. He was just too stupid to take accountability and step up to the truth. You can go off on a reactive tirade and blame everyone but yourself for all your problems and stupid mishaps but it’ll all fall back on you eventually. Some of them might come back with a flimsy apology and “I would not have apologised if I didn’t mean it” but if you were that sorry in the first place you wouldn’t have done it and damaged someone’s year at all. And I’m probably always going to hate them for everything they did.