[Garfie]

Originally Posted by MTVN

I think people are imposing unfair expectations on Noky. Yeah it's true that Trish was her crutch and she knows that but Trish has also been a crutch to Yinrun, Henry, even Matty a little bit. It's in her nature to do that and that's very commendable. Noky did apologise for Trish having to take the brunt of Dylan's wrath so she is aware of that. She has also had Trish's back in the past like during the ant task. At the same time she's not obliged to handle things in the same way if that doesn't come easily to her and all her relationships with other people can't only be conducted through the lens of what's acceptable to Trish.

I feel like Paul going has been such a release to her that she's been almost giddy about being able to relax in the house again and feel able to speak to anyone. She was so lively on the LF on Sat night and at the heart of everything. No doubt she is a bit of a people pleaser and that can be a flaw but it's not the biggest crime.

As I said in a previous post, all housemates have flaws, just as every person does. That doesn’t make Noky a bad person.

The truth is we will all base our responses to housemates. on what we as individuals value most in others. When our values seem to match, we will judge housemates more favourably. When we don’t see a match with our own values, we are more likely to find a housemate more difficult to relate to.