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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock
Envy
Stubbornness - I know that I can be stubborn over silly stuff, but I'm talking about when it starts harming others is when it bothers me.
Manipulation
Deceitfulness
Not Being Willing To Forgive - We all make mistakes, what this type of person never realises is that it could be them on the brunt of a mistake, and they would want to be forgiven. Obviously if it's something truly heinous (criminal activity for example) then I understand not being so forgiving.
Greed - One of my main reasons why I hate Politics in real life.
Judgemental people - I ****ing despise it when an individual doesn't like someone because they have a hobby that this person isn't particularly interested in. Or something that is generally harmless, but someone will pull you up over it.
And my last one is hard to put into words, but it's in the other option on the poll. And that would have to be people who claim to be accepting of everyone and everything, and they never have a negative opinion or controversial opinion about anything, it almost feels like they are watching what they're saying or doing because they want to always be seen as a "good" person, they're also very cautious to make any jokes too, because they're worried about offending anyone in the room with them. To me I find it unnatural and genuinely makes me feel very uneasy around an individual like that because you never know what they're really thinking about anything.
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I agree with what you’re saying about judgemental people. But not forgiveness. You don’t owe people that if they’ve really crossed you, and it doesn’t have to be heinous criminal activity. You choose the people who are worthy of your time and set your own boundaries. Especially if the person’s narcissistic, you’re under no obligation to forgive and forget just to remain a decent person. There are people whose hate of them I’ll probably take to the grave because they just don’t deserve my forgiveness. I’ll tell you that for nothing.
Toxic positivity, by the way, is one way of putting what you’re trying to describe in your last paragraph.