[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Tbf, Benjamin's not having an affair on his boyfriend.

If you're with the right person you wouldn't be looking at anyone in that way.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

You have a bf. You shouldn't be looking at other men.

Are you suggesting nobody in a relationship should have crushes.. even celeb ones !?

That’s simply not correct imho

Millions of married women lusted after Richard Gere and George Clooney


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[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

If you're with the right person you wouldn't be looking at anyone in that way.

LOL, everyone looks at other people. You’re allowed to find other people attractive/pretty/handsome. Doesn’t mean they are going to sleep with them.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

If you're with the right person you wouldn't be looking at anyone in that way.

I think it’s perfectly normal/ natural and even healthy to find other women attractive..its not a sexual thing though ..


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

LOL, everyone looks at other people. You’re allowed to find other people attractive/pretty/handsome. Doesn’t mean they are going to sleep with them.

Great minds think alike


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[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Great minds think alike


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His comment is just ridiculous.

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

His comment is just ridiculous.

You do those things. Of course you're going to agree with it.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

You do those things. Of course you're going to agree with it.

Have you ever been in a relationship?

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

Have you ever been in a relationship?

Yes.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

Yes.

So why is it wrong to purely say other people are attractive/good looking?

I’ve made a thread on this topic so it doesn’t clutter this thread

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/for...d.php?t=393459

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

LOL, everyone looks at other people. You’re allowed to find other people attractive/pretty/handsome. Doesn’t mean they are going to sleep with them.

…I once had a conversation with a friend, oh quite a while ago…but he’s gay and the relevance of me saying that he and his husband would both often find the same celebrities etc attractive so appreciating/voicing that attractiveness is something that’s mutual and shared, if that makes sense…heterosexual relationships don’t have that in quite the same way …it was an interesting conversation actually of perspectives I hadn’t thought of…I guess it could get a bit competitive as well…I LOVE PEDRO MORE…!!!!…/..NO, I DO..!!!…no, me, me, me…ok, then let’s have a dual and settle this thing……

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

Being incapable of distinguishing right from wrong is one basis for being found to be legally insane.

Ben to a T

I cant see if Pedro is attractive though because his pic is so enormous

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

So why is it wrong to purely say other people are attractive/good looking?

Look at the bb house. Many are in relationships and you don't see them saying it. My first ever bf was a DJ and I was constantly surrounded by beautiful people and only had eyes for him. You won't make your bf feel good about himself when you think others are attractive.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Ben to a T

I cant see if Pedro is attractive though because his pic is so enormous

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

Look at the bb house. Many are in relationships and you don't see them saying it. My first ever bf was a DJ and I was constantly surrounded by beautiful people and only had eyes for him. You won't make your bf feel good about himself when you think others are attractive.

But isn't this comment kinda disagreeing with what you wrote earlier? Because you're saying "beautiful people" so aren't you recognising that they're attractive despite only being attracted to your own bf?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Ben to a T

I cant see if Pedro is attractive though because his pic is so enormous

…yeah that’s what I said earlier, with images in threads and keeping the thread alignment, less is definitely more…that pic was just greedy…

[Jessica.]

If you change your forum theme to responsive doesn't it automatically resize the images?

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

Look at the bb house. Many are in relationships and you don't see them saying it. My first ever bf was a DJ and I was constantly surrounded by beautiful people and only had eyes for him. You won't make your bf feel good about himself when you think others are attractive.

That says more about you and your insecurities in a relationship.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…yeah that’s what I said earlier, with images in threads and keeping the thread alignment, less is definitely more…that pic was just greedy…

Is it actually big? It fits on the screen for me perfectly.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

If you change your forum theme to responsive doesn't it automatically resize the images?

Must do as images are fine for me and I have that on in my theme (didn’t realise that’s what it did)

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by caprimint

But isn't this comment kinda disagreeing with what you wrote earlier? Because you're saying "beautiful people" so aren't you recognising that they're attractive despite only being attracted to your own bf?

I could say Marilyn Monroe or Grace Kelly are beautiful and not being sexually attracted to them. I've know straight guys to think Elvis was handsome.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

Is it actually big? It fits on the screen for me perfectly.

…it’s not big at all my love, it’s record breaking…and giving award winning size realness…

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

That says more about you and your insecurities in a relationship.

You've never truly been in love.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

You've never truly been in love.

Hahaha yeah ok.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

I could say Marilyn Monroe or Grace Kelly are beautiful and not being sexually attracted to them. I've know straight guys to think Elvis was handsome.

Ohh okay the choice of wording is what you're referring to then, I agree it'd "wrong" to be sexually attracted to other people if you're in a relationship but I don't think Ben was saying that either