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The first messages I was drunk and didn't know you had a bf.
You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.
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You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.
I think it’s a way of communicating with you to be honest
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You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.
It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.
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It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.
The two are totally different
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It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.
Erm no, I never made you feel guilty, I never even responded. I ignore your PM’s. The only reason I’m bringing it up is because I’m responding to you saying I’m ignoring you.
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Prompted by the recent convo in The Hot Guy thread.

Is it acceptable to find other people attractive/pretty/handsome etc if you’re in a relationship? (I’m talking purely looking/commenting about another person).

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yeah its fine, you cant avoid looking at people would be a bit controlling for a partner to get jealous over it I think anyway

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I think he is a very good looking guy. Would I sleep with him, no, because I’m in a relationship.

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Absolutely.....appreciating someone for their looks is fine. Acting on it is different.

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If you're looking at other people, then you're in the wrong relationship.

Nonsense. … even if you are in a relationship then it is perfectly acceptable to find celebrities or complete strangers attractive


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Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.
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Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.

Yes

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Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.
It doesn't even make sense anyway, if you can tell people are good looking when you're single how would you suddenly not be able to tell when you're not?
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It doesn't even make sense anyway, if you can tell people are good looking when you're single how would you suddenly not be able to tell when you're not?

Plus why would you suddenly stop finding people attractive when you commit to someone


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