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Originally Posted by Niamh.

In general I agree with you but that particular discussion wasn't bad at all, at least Marcellos part in it anyway(for once), as others have said he wasn't the only one participating in it but he seemed to be the only one that Ali had the issue with afterwards.

Marcello seemed to be the one leading the conversation though and he was the one who made the particular comment about "ejaculating" which is what I think she was uncomfortable listening to

Originally Posted by vesavius

And a person fully has the right to not like that, but pretending that her job depended on it was cheap and manipulative. Shutting down conversations that you don't personally like is toxic and controlling. A normal person in a shared situation simply chooses to not be part of it for the couple of minutes it is happening.

Instead of sitting in judgement of the conversations of others, she might want to actually try and be interesting enough to have a conversation of her own with people she likes (if she actually likes anyone in there, which I doubt).

But, yeah, he didn't say anything wild... These conversations have happened literally every year. Emma's jokes have been way way more crude (but I still like her).

This wasn't about what he said though,not really. It was about it being a long five minutes since Ali had shut someone down and she loves doing that way too much.

We don't know too much about the specific details of her job so it's difficult for anyone else to judge that fairly. She wasn't telling him to never speak about it, she just said she was uncomfortable being forced to be there when that conversation was taking place and to talk about it with his friends or others who he knows wants to partake in it, I don't think that's entirely unreasonable?

She's always (and was always) chatting with Lily, Nathan, Daze, Dean, Izaaz and even Khaled lately too, but considering she's got the most threads about her on here then she must be pretty interesting for you to keep discussing

She comes across as though she doesn't hide/hold back her thoughts and feelings and always says exactly what she thinks. It's normal human behaviour rather than "wanting to shut people down"

Originally Posted by Kazanne

So why doesn't she have that conversation with Lily ? as she is also gross and annoying,maybe she doesn't like men.

The worst Lily has done is pick her nose It's not even comparable. Ali gets on well with Nathan, Dean & Izaaz so saying she has an issue with men is a stretch just because she's had disagreements with a couple of them