[Garfie]

Originally Posted by *mazedsalv**

If Ali was a man and acted the way she did last night, she would be hated by the very people who are so called supporting her to the death.

Khaled has the patience of a saint. 99.9% of people wouldn't have been as calm as he was.

If i had someone like Ali work in the same place with me, i would steer clear from her, because just the very presence of me would set her off.

Someone on X said it all,

"Ali, could you please pass the salt?"

"OK, listen, i know what you are trying to do, you are trying to vilify me in a way in front of the cameras which will be detrimental to my job. I am done with this conversation".

I must admit that another hypocrisy that tends to emerge in Ali, is the accusation that Khaled is trying to vilify her on camera. I do find this somewhat frustrating in her because she has very publicly, in front of large groups of housemates as well as the cameras, levelled very harsh judgements at him.

She has accused him of being false and fake, with all that implies regarding dishonesty and deceit, and she has suggested he showed no sensitivity or consideration for Martha, when he clearly explained the process he went through to arrive at his decision in the fairest way possible.

Ironically, it is often Ali who is vilifying Khaled, but she seems unable to recognise that. I do have an understanding of why Ali behaves as she does, and I have sympathy for that, but I think that on looking back, she herself, will see that this is something she needs to address and moderate in her interactions with others.

The accusation or suggestion of vilification has been used each time another housemate has tried to discuss or resolve an issue with Ali - this serves only to silence them, so ensures that problems can never be solved and that resentment remain on both sides. It is a shame that she seems unable to be more open-minded in these situations, or that someone she trusts in there is not willing to discuss this with her in a kind and thoughtful way,