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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock
And that ironically would make me more angry towards them.
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Yep. In psychological language it’s called triangulation. Not everyone knows just-how toxic it is or how-much they’re showing themselves up whenever they side with someone they don’t even particularly like just to gang in on you. It’s different when there’s a genuine reason for them to dislike you but when it’s based on nothing more than misread vibes or just personal distaste, it’s sickening the lengths some people will go to to cast you as the odd one out. To people who don’t think very deeply about interpersonal psychology, it might sound “out there” but the fact that something’s out or someone’s reach of experience or understanding doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Triangulation is a very nasty tactic when it’s unfounded.
Me, I’m not pristine when it comes to that but if and when I do triangulate, at-least I have my reasons. Genuine reasons.
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