[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

...and I can't stop comfort eating.

Should I still go on holiday and be a literal whale on the beach or postpone and go when I feel better about myself?

[Cherie]

Go, people on holiday are all shapes and sizes and maybe use the time you have left before you go to go on a health kick, even if you cant stop eating increase your activity so you are burning it off

[thesheriff443]

Go on a holiday to a deserted island with no food for a month and you will come back looking great

Go on holiday and eat the holiday food if you delay the holiday you might get even bigger

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

...and I can't stop comfort eating.

Should I still go on holiday and be a literal whale on the beach or postpone and go when I feel better about myself?

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Why in earth do you have to go to a beach on a holiday. If you do go no one is looking at you or cares how fat you are. Rather silly attitude

[Ammi]

….absolutely go CeeCee, a holiday still be great for you and (…I think…)…that you delayed last years…it’s to relax your mind as well as your body and we all need that and whether you went or didn’t go, that weight would still be the same so it’s a bit of a no brainier….goooooooo…!!!!!…and only think about having a wonderful time and a great break/holiday…

…anything else that you might look at in your life…?..as Scarlett and Moira Rose would say…tomorrow is another day…/…have the best time, my love…

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

……I’m so, so sorry for your loss…I’m glad though that you had so much time with him and he with you…/…and I’m also pretty sure that your pride for him is what he felt about you also…….

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ammi

……I’m so, so sorry for your loss…I’m glad though that you had so much time with him and he with you…/…and I’m also pretty sure that your pride for him is what he felt about you also…….

Thank you Ammi, i felt so honoured to be a Pallbearer, he was a wonderful man

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

So sorry bud !


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[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

Thank you Ammi, i felt so honoured to be a Pallbearer, he was a wonderful man

……such a wonderful and precious thing to have been honoured to spend so much time together as well…

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Zizu

So sorry bud !


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He was the Brighton fan i spoke about years ago in the football threads, hence my soft spot for Brighton. Actually been to more Brighton games than Chelsea

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

He was the Brighton fan i spoke about years ago in the football threads, hence my soft spot for Brighton. Actually been to more Brighton games than Chelsea

…and don’t stop going to those games…..you’ve been handed down that legacy of continued support for them…

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ammi

……such a wonderful and precious thing to have been honoured to spend so much time together as well…

Yeah it was very nerve wracking.

I might get into more detail about it in the near future, i just find it all hard to talk about atm tbh. You actually posted a message on my wall on the morning of the funeral, made me smile.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…and don’t stop going to those games…..you’ve been handed down that legacy of continued support for them…

Yeah im going to with my cousin Ian, we only live a 45 min easy drive to their AMEX stadium, so we're gonna get some games in for sure this season.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

...and I can't stop comfort eating.

Should I still go on holiday and be a literal whale on the beach or postpone and go when I feel better about myself?

Go and enjoy yourself. We're all different shapes and sizes. Be confident and proud.

[Vanessa]

When I go to the beach I bring my tent. It gives me privacy and that makes me more confident.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yeah it was very nerve wracking.

I might get into more detail about it in the near future, i just find it all hard to talk about atm tbh. You actually posted a message on my wall on the morning of the funeral, made me smile.

….ahhhhhhh I know, just one day at a time and I think that he would have liked that you had a smile for him as well because I’m sure that’s the way he most loved to see …smiling…

Originally Posted by Swan

Yeah im going to with my cousin Ian, we only live a 45 min easy drive to their AMEX stadium, so we're gonna get some games in for sure this season.

…that’s such a wonderful tribute to him as they’re obviously a team that he had great love for and you’re both continuing that for him……

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Swan

He was the Brighton fan i spoke about years ago in the football threads, hence my soft spot for Brighton. Actually been to more Brighton games than Chelsea

Well the two teams seem to have very close ties !!


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

When I go to the beach I bring my tent. It gives me privacy and that makes me more confident.

Slight tangent.,

Up north we would say ..

“ when I go to the beach I TAKE my tent “



Strange how the different regions differ ..

I was watching footie a while back and the commentator said “ he’s went for the ball “ and it sounded odd as we would say “ he’s gone for the ball “


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[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Go, people on holiday are all shapes and sizes and maybe use the time you have left before you go to go on a health kick, even if you cant stop eating increase your activity so you are burning it off

I bought a walking pad and it's been sitting in untouched for days. Gonna get on it

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Go on a holiday to a deserted island with no food for a month and you will come back looking great

Go on holiday and eat the holiday food if you delay the holiday you might get even bigger

Any suggestions for deserted island?

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

Swan, I'm sorry for your loss.

It really does pile on quickly and it's such a journey to get it off. If your mind is not in it it's so difficult...and my mind really isn't on it. Working hybrid hasn't helped either.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo

Why in earth do you have to go to a beach on a holiday. If you do go no one is looking at you or cares how fat you are. Rather silly attitude

Well excuse me

I watch to watch the ocean and also the sunset. The ocean is my happy place.

With the age of social media when even Louise from HR posts photos like an influencer on the gram it's easy to compare and contrast and see what is deemed (acceptable). (I know I know social media isn't real)

Working on it

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

Any suggestions for deserted island?

There must be plenty now all the migrants are over here in hotels

[Barry.]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

Sorry for your loss swan. Hope you are ok. I’m guessing that’s why you haven’t been on much.


For the holiday question, go, no one will care that you are fat, every person has different body types. Enjoy your holiday