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Originally Posted by Ammi

…my own understanding of what Gani has said is that he loves his wife and son and would stay in the marriage if she accepts him for who he is…his bisexuality, his career aspirations etc…a ‘this is me/take it or leave it…’….type deal…not a partnership of working together as such…

The dude is going out at night to shag blokes, leaving a probably very traditional wife at home with his child.

Take it or leave it? It's not that simple for her...

"There is still significant social stigma and shame associated with divorce in India, particularly for women".. Let alone the pressure of their families.

I actively dislike this man. He is a selfish degenerate that everyone seems to love cause he does some Indian dancing.

Also, and this isn't in response to you Amni at all, the rationalisation of first cousin marriage that I am seeing 'because that's how his culture does it' is nasty. Inbreeding is not a good thing. At the very least it puts the child at much higher risk of deformity. I don't care if it happens elsewhere... That does not make it ok to happen here and it should not be accepted under some false idea of 'multiculturalism'.