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Originally Posted by Ammi

…well, I get that that’s your assumption and thought process etc but Emily and Tate don’t have the same house experiences in terms of so many aspects of actions and interactions etc and feelings of approval and acceptance…so it is hugely more layered than that to equate …(…in my opinion…)…it’s just not something that I can comment on without many layers that just aren’t there…

I appreciate this argument. I came back to the thread to say, thinking about it, I suppose the key difference is the Tate seems to be one of those who hold sway in there whilst Emily isn't, so any cutting down to size, as it were, may not hit him as hard as it would Emily. But then you had replied!

It does make me uncomfortable, but that's probably my issue to work through.