[Tom]

Originally Posted by VickyJ

Because I wouldnt question what someone says? Just because of stereotyping?

Yes that makes me sound ridiculous...

I'm sorry but step outside your flowery little bubble where everything is equal and look at this from a realistic point of view.

Originally Posted by Jords

Tom I disagree with you.
Marco is actually gay, there is quite the correlation between being camp when a man is gay, so its not right to ask that.

Anyway, what makes you think Joe is gay? Did he do something inparticular?

I was using Marco as an example. We all know he's gay because he admitted it, but if he was still in the closet and was claiming he was straight, would you believe him? After all you can be extremely camp and straight ...

Originally Posted by VickyJ

Tom, lets try the opposite of what your saying.

Lets say...some big macho, not camp at all guy, tells you he is gay.

Would you believe him?

I'd be a bit uncertain tbh, I'd never believe he was fully blown gay if he was how you describe. Bi at most. What you fail to see is that there is psychology attached to sexuality and mannerisms e.g. there have been studies on the way straight and gay people walk.