[Miss Ivy Balls]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Sounds very dramatic Thomas, incidentally what is the worst swear word in the world, as opposed to copping some points for swearing on the forum, could you send it to me in a PM? I may not have been on at the time he was constantly calling you it.

Yeah i know he didnt appreciate your humour but then again its horses for courses.

Maybe he is a bit stuck in his ways, but think about it logically, you posting the above hasnt really helped heal the wounds has it?

I don't want to get into it.

Just saying my bit as it had relevance to me.

Not dramatic on my part. It was the C word.

I don't want to heal the wounds as wishing someone dead on a forum and giving them constant abuse like that is so disgusting from a man of his age or anyone.

It has nothing to do with humour. I did nothing to warrant the way he was with me.





Good night.

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Novo

What you said was stupid, Read.

You're stupid. Deal with it baby boy

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Don't call me stupid. I pulled a date out of the air

You will have to teach me one Kerry, that must be quite a trick when you are stuck with a boring night in, do they put out, these dates?

[Novo]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

You're stupid. Deal with it baby boy

Probably the worst reply i have ever seen on TIBB, you said bans and infractions are to do with the forum not being active at christmas... FFS... now that is stupid. does it ever Occur to you that people do things at christmas?

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Novo

Probably the worst reply i have ever seen on TIBB, you said bans and infractions are to do with the forum not being active at christmas... FFS... now that is stupid. does it ever Occur to you that people do things at christmas?

And I said I pulled a date out of the air. It'll die way before that in truth

[Locke.]

Much better place now that Claymores is gone.

Will be even better if Mark accepts Thomas_C's offer, he won't though unless he adds a couple more 0's to the end of it.

[Novo]

How will it possibly die before Christmas? X factor ends after christmas and people come on the forum to discuss that and even without X factor the forum is active, you need some sleep

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Novo

How will it possibly die before Christmas? X factor ends after christmas and people come on the forum to discuss that and even without X factor the forum is active, you need some sleep

Have you not seen the rate people are fecking off?

[Novo]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Have you not seen the rate people are fecking off?

Tonight 63 people were online the most i've seen since big brother finished, and no people aren't really leaving lot's of members have stuck around, it is more active then i thought it was going to be after BB11 ended

[Kerry]

Gonna bed. This is stupid. Night

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Try looking into the reasons for the infractions, 8 because he winged about a certain permanently banned member being allowed back, surely a private word from a mod, explaining the situation would have cleared up that up without the need for a harsh punishment?

As I believe, he was warned many times before receiving the actual infractions. he even got a couple of official warnings too. And chose to ignore them. What do you suggest we do in this situation? just keep warning and warning and warning? it was clear that no notice was being took, so that is why he got those infractions.

Originally Posted by Shasown

Yeah whenever anyone complains about moderating decisions even if they have PM'ed staff with or without receiving a reply they are pretty much automatically infracted for causing drama, its a good coverall.

Yes, if they complain on the forum, they usually do receive an infraction. As 9 times out of 10, they havent PMed any member of staff, and are just trying to cause a scene. Even if they have Pmed someone about it, we are not robots, we are not online 24 hours a day...and its hardly an really urgent matter getting an infraction reversed.

Originally Posted by Shasown

Nah they wont stop the them or us mentality as they look down on us pondlife from TiBB towers.

Just

Originally Posted by Shasown

Its a question of having dealt with drama putting it to the side and moving on, life is exactly the same, you will become embittered if you always dwell on past battles and view everyone with suspicion.

We do deal with it and move on. But usually thats sometimes quite hard to do, as the person in question throws it in our faces sometimes even MONTHS afterwards

Originally Posted by Shasown

Look at the circumstances of those infractions.

What else can people do if they cant see Mods active on the forum? They know some mods are there but because the mods are "invisible" ro non staff they cant PM so they get fustrated and feel they have to post on the forum.

Again, getting an infraction reversed is not an urgent thing. I fail to see how someone would become so frustrated about it that they have an uncontrollable urge to post on the forum about it. Knowing full well they are chance to get another because of this.

Then again, if you cause drama over it, and get another infraction...it gives you more ammo to start more drama later on doesnt it.

Originally Posted by Shasown

Yes I think you are misreading the forum, there may be less of those you view as troublemakers posting on the forums. The cliques are still there, it may just be because one of the group of cliques has staff as members.

Again

Funny how barely anyone else has noticed a 'clique problem' isnt it.

Staff interact with all members. We do not ignore anyone. However, if people go out of their way to ignore us, then we will stop making the effort to speak to them...surely that is fair comment right?

Originally Posted by Shasown

Lets face it there were members on here accusing another member of what is classed as an international crime, yet mods just stood by and watched, yes I know the member was warned he even posted how he had only been warned. Just like a couple of nights ago another member even stated that people had deliberately ganged up against someone who recently copped for a ban.

Erm, if this is about the smithy thing, he did NOT receive a warning. He got an infraction, I gave it myself, and have also just checked on his profile to make sure I am definitely right. When he said he got a warning, he was obviously attempting to wind people up. Though no doubt you will not take my word for that...so ask any other mod/admin you like. It WAS an infraction.

Originally Posted by Shasown

Funny how that comment and a few others were deleted, but not by the member posting it, aint it. Of course there is no conspiracy but lets face it staff here dont like to be questioed or challenged on their decisions do they, thats at least an infraction isnt it?

Challenge away. But dont do it on the main forum.

The only reason people do it on the forum, is so that they have an audience. Someone said before that... 'Maybe a lot of people fear to get not treated fair when they doing it via PM, because they will not have any witness for what everyone has said'

If you feel a member of staff has said anything out of order to you via PM...you can report it, the same as you can report pms from members. There is no need whatsoever to have an audience, except for virtual backslaps, which quite frankly, is pathetic.

[Benjamin]

I leave you all for ONE night and look what happens

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

I leave you all for ONE night and look what happens

I wasnt here for most of it

-hides-

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I wasnt here for most of it

-hides-

Even James has posted in here

Kind of glad I missed this last night, I was in no mood for petty drama.

[Vicky.]

I havent slept yet.

I dont feel tired, but I feel floaty and so hungry. But if I eat then I wont sleep til tonight, but that might be a good thing because if I have had no sleep at all I might be able to sleep early...like 11pm or something.

Did that make sense?!

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I havent slept yet.

I dont feel tired, but I feel floaty and so hungry. But if I eat then I wont sleep til tonight, but that might be a good thing because if I have had no sleep at all I might be able to sleep early...like 11pm or something.

Did that make sense?!

It made sense in a rambly, tired, confusing kind of way
If would say stay awake, then you'll sleep like tonight.

[Vicky.]

LOL.

Well, I cant be bothered to go get food

Gavins mams downstairs, am half tempted to shout her up and give her my bank card and ask her to go shopping. But no, going to have to do it myself I think

Might watch bad girls all day, that will keep me awake

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

LOL.

Well, I cant be bothered to go get food

Gavins mams downstairs, am half tempted to shout her up and give her my bank card and ask her to go shopping. But no, going to have to do it myself I think

Might watch bad girls all day, that will keep me awake

You lazy moo, lol. Maybe the fresh air will wake you up (that or you'll collapse from exhaustion in the fresh produce aisle at Tesco)

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

You lazy moo, lol. Maybe the fresh air will wake you up (that or you'll collapse from exhaustion in the fresh produce aisle at Tesco)

Haha.

Its not safe for me to face the world when I havent slept.


I wouldnt really send gavins mam to the shop for me though...

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Haha.

Its not safe for me to face the world when I havent slept.


I wouldnt really send gavins mam to the shop for me though...

Yes you would, you would send her, you just wouldn't admit to doing so

Do you actually need anything from the outside world today?

[Vicky.]

Yeah, shopping in general.

I have no sugar or food...there is literally 2 tins of soup in the entire house...and 3 eggs.

So serious shopping needed

Will also need cigarettes soon...I smoke FAR too much in the night, if I only smoked through they day i would save a fortune

[Vicky.]

OMFG I just discovered an ex on facebook. And if his photos and stuff are to be believed, he was married when I was with him

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OMFG I just discovered an ex on facebook. And if his photos and stuff are to be believed, he was married when I was with him

What a dirty rat bag! Pfft at least you not with him now.
I had an ex try add me the other week on Facebook, I ignored them, they were an absolute ****** to me, why would I want to be 'friends' with them?

[Vicky.]

I have loads of people on my friends list who I dont like

Glad it never got serious or anything. Hes also older than he said he was.

Still looks hot though

[Benjamin]

LOL, yeah most exes seem to get hotter when it ends

Sorry to throw this randomness into the thread, but Im obsessed with this song, I don't know why. I heard it on the radio the other and and now it's in my head all the time. I hate when songs do that (but I love the song).

Youtube video

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