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Originally Posted by KG.

We seem to have forgotten adoption/surrogacy and civil partnerships (and of course the possibility of marriage - although not likely with a conservative government)

Just because your child may turn out to be gay, that doesn't rule out the possibility of being a grandfather/mother or watching your child get married/enter a civil partnership with the person they love, and surely seeing your child happy should greatly outweigh any of your own desires for how you wanted things to be?

I dunno if that was meaning my post; but I was meaning it in the traditional vein of marriage and having children; and yes that was my point too - love of your child would surely be more important than any "plans" you had for them.