[Tom.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I would imagine it is actually(not genuine post-natal depression cases...).

Being forced to carry a child that you do not want for 9 months, the stress of knowing you cant look after it, then eventually having the child...fair or unfair you are likely feel some form of resentment towards the child, even though it is not the childs fault at all. I cant see how anyone could possibly see it any differently

But its not. Its all psychological. Parental instincts often override the initial resentment.

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I ask, what if the mother does want the child, but the father wants her to abort it...would it then be fair to chop his penis off? After all, that should equal the amount of suffering that you seem to think that the mother should go through for the same thing. Fairs fair and that eh

She probably wouldnt abort it in the first place