[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I take your point but the difference is you don't make excuses for the door and defend the door for giving you the fright because it's just a door and you don't have any connection with it (*thinks this is the strangest sentence I've ever written*) where as you forgive and defend HMs because you've grown to like them over their time in the house and even though they may behave badly sometimes you make excuses for them because of the emotional connection you have with them

Not so. (laughs at the door sentence though...).

I like Aaron but I find that his way of dealing with things to be as poor as Faye and both of their actions in the same light (ie: the crying as a good example) - yet I like Aaron, and disike Faye but am able to reach the same conclusion - because I have no emotional connection.

If I had, I would not be able to have that same opinion on the same acts carried out by two housemates for whom I have differing regard to.