[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by madJOE

if any man dose not no what he wants at his age < then he is messing with everyone heads < has he been like alex < harry < and kept himself to himself < not he has jumped in the deep end and he can not swin well.


aaron dont ask me to chuck in the red ring to help you swim, and yes i am being serious.

Oh dear is THAT supposed to be the answer at:

[alex_front2]

I definitely think Aaron likes prim and proper ladies not beer swilling ladettes which is sort of what Faye is. When she mentioned she wanted to get both nipple pierced to Jay, Aaron look revolted and shocked. He wants walks in the country with a lady, not boozy nights out.

When Fay mentioned that it was weird how he hadn't slept with the woman he was seeing before entering the house, Aaron tellingly said 'it's because she's a proper lady!'. And herein lies the problem Aaron likes ladies to be ladylike. Not beer drinking, overtly sexual, vulgar, boob flashing, burping and loud.

In the recently shown VT he even says he hates loud women. He likes to chase women, not have them throwing themselves at him which is too easy. So he's old school (which I love). I'd be the same if I was a bloke, can't stand women who are too sexual forward, it's tacky. Faye did ALL the running when they got together.

[cell]

Aaron is only guilty of taking her back time and time again. He probably fears what may happen if he doesn't, he really put himself in a bad situation getting involved with her. They are completely un compatible. I guess the flack lays on him because he is older and should recognize a bad thing when he sees it and make distance but didn't.

[jyunga]

Originally Posted by kazanne

She didn't just 'burp' though did she,WHY would she chose to do it down his ear!!! doesn't she realise SOME people were brought up with manners,not everyone finds this kind of behaviour acceptable.If Aaron did not like it,why should he pretend he did,just to keep the peace with her?Love someone who sticks to their principles no matter what.

It's not about pretending he liked it. He can be disgusted and annoyed with her. But you don't normal ignore a person for hours on end because of something childish they did when they were drunk. His reactions are what make him come off looking like he is using her. I don't know of anyone that has really liked someone I know and acted the way he does when something happens he doesn't like. I'd like to believe that's just the type of person he is. But at the same time, it does make it look like he isn't very interested in her when he reacts like that... which makes all his "i really really like you" talk seem like game play at times.

ps: i like aaron and think he really likes her. he's just odd and she's immature... and BB feeds them too much alcohol = troubles.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by jyunga

It's not about pretending he liked it. He can be disgusted and annoyed with her. But you don't normal ignore a person for hours on end because of something childish they did when they were drunk. His reactions are what make him come off looking like he is using her. I don't know of anyone that has really liked someone I know and acted the way he does when something happens he doesn't like. I'd like to believe that's just the type of person he is. But at the same time, it does make it look like he isn't very interested in her when he reacts like that... which makes all his "i really really like you" talk seem like game play at times.

ps: i like aaron and think he really likes her. he's just odd and she's immature... and BB feeds them too much alcohol = troubles.

Another problem imo is that when you start dating someone in r/l, you're not living with them straight away and in their company 24/7 that has to be a bit much for anyone, surely?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by jyunga

It's not about pretending he liked it. He can be disgusted and annoyed with her. But you don't normal ignore a person for hours on end because of something childish they did when they were drunk. His reactions are what make him come off looking like he is using her. I don't know of anyone that has really liked someone I know and acted the way he does when something happens he doesn't like. I'd like to believe that's just the type of person he is. But at the same time, it does make it look like he isn't very interested in her when he reacts like that... which makes all his "i really really like you" talk seem like game play at times.

ps: i like aaron and think he really likes her. he's just odd and she's immature... and BB feeds them too much alcohol = troubles.

It could also be said that her nominating him 3 times is not the act of someone you fancy,also Faye bringing his son into an argument,faye giving Anton a drunken grope,sorry but there are lots of things Aaron should be pissed off about,faye has often ridiculed Aaron,have not seen him to that to her,maybe his way of handling things is to shut up and think about the situation,which some see as a sulk.he was very hurt when he heard Fayes nomination of him and again with Fayes family,imo Aaron would do much better to steer clear of both those sisters.

[alex_front2]

But that's what I am saying. Aaron has an awkward way of dealing with situations. He's non confrontational so either walks away, ignores, heads to smoking area for contemplation, imposes speaking ban, runs to DR or dives under duvet. This is often foolhardy but at least it leads to talking points. For example when the whole Maisy situation blew up he heads to DR and Maisy was left to deal with it. Not the best from Aaron but he's flawed and being 100% perfect would be dull.

Having said that I do think Aaron uses his awkwardness to get away with things for example when he kissed Maisy I am totally convinced he knew full well Faye fancied him and wanted to goad her into feeling jealous. That's the only overt manipulation I've seen, but that's not particually bad as it made Faye confront her attraction to him which she had been suppressing by constantly mocking him and labeling him gay etc.

[Ellen]

He cant tell her to s*d off so his way of dealing with her is to remove himself from the situation or any situation in the house he doesnt like.

Maybe people think all his speaking, not speaking is mind games

[fruit_cake]

I find it very difficult to trust Aaron personally after the Maisy/bed swapping affair

[jyunga]

But that's really the problem isn't it. His awkwardness gives the perception to some viewers that he is using her because of his reactions. To me a lot of Faye's actions against Aaron come off as her being a spoiled brat. Boy doesn't seem to like me? Vote him out. I don't think she had much gameplay in the early weeks.

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I find it very difficult to trust Aaron personally after the Maisy/bed swapping affair

Well he said he was interested in her and for a week she did nothing to show she was interested back in him. So what can you do? Another girl cuddles up in bed with you and shows interested. I think his not talking to Faye was likely cause he was interested but didn't know how to approach her. That first week she was a tease with him and blew him off emotionally. I'd probably have kissed maisy in the same situation too ;d

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Ellen

He cant tell her to s*d off so his way of dealing with her is to remove himself from the situation or any situation in the house he doesnt like.

Maybe people think all his speaking, not speaking is mind games

maybe so, in real life he could just go home

[chuff me dizzy]

Watch it spit its dummy out again ,God shes one boring ,needy cowbag http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...k-on-Faye-day/

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I find it very difficult to trust Aaron personally after the Maisy/bed swapping affair

Your hero was not put off by it was she? soon jumped in for sloppy seconds ,minging cow she is

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

maybe so, in real life he could just go home

Exactly...

In real life i dont think he would go anywhere near Faye

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I find it very difficult to trust Aaron personally after the Maisy/bed swapping affair

'bed swapping affair'

You mean when he SNOGGED Maisy after Faye showed NO INTEREST in him & then SHE had a fit because she liked him?! Yes, makes him very untrustworthy that

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I find it very difficult to trust Aaron personally after the Maisy/bed swapping affair

But what actually was wrong about that. Aaron's a single guy, Maisy admitted she wanted some sexual attention, and she had grown closer to Aaron after they resolved cup-cake gate. Faye did not overtly express her attraction to Aaron and was actually mocking him 2 days earlier for being camp and jokingingly not able to talk dirty to her and Tom.

Faye was mad with Aaron over Maisy as he seemed to get over her rapidly after he confessed to fancying her on the date and she didn't reciprocate. Having said that, I do think Aaron knew that Faye fancied him as she began to follow him around the HM and start conversations about dating and love life.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Your hero was not put off by it was she? soon jumped in for sloppy seconds ,minging cow she is

Shock Horror! Faye knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go and get it. She doesn't fake anything what you see is what you get. She's the one who got Aaron, nobody else.. Faye is the one who won the 'lord'.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

Shock Horror! Faye knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go and get it. She doesn't fake anything what you see is what you get. She's the one who got Aaron, nobody else.. Faye is the one who won the 'lord'.

Oh please

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

But what actually was wrong about that. Aaron's a single guy, Maisy admitted she wanted some sexual attention, and she had grown closer to Aaron after they resolved cup-cake gate. Faye did not overtly express her attraction to Aaron and was actually mocking him 2 days earlier for being camp and jokingingly not able to talk dirty to her and Tom.

Faye was mad with Aaron over Maisy as he seemed to get over her rapidly after he confessed to fancying her on the date and she didn't reciprocate. Having said that, I do think Aaron knew that Faye fancied him as she began to follow him around the HM and start conversations about dating and love life.

I didn't say there was anything wrong with it, I just said it means I personally wouldn't trust him.

In my view he made things better when he stood by her after the nominations fiasco last night! Now I trust him again

[jet]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

[fruit_cake]

Faye is the way ladies and gentleman! Faye is the way

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by jet

Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

But that's the whole point, everyone is different and has different things that p*ss them off. For example Jay loves Louise's farts. I'd hate it. Aaron is a BB maverick

[jet]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

I'm seeing some pretty convincing points, and I also saw them with my own eyes on BB. Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by jet

Well, the other boys ARE living in the house. Maybe you would believe them? Watch the latest video on facebook.
http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...s&fb_bmpos=1_0

Will post this again.

T: He is getting boring though isnt he
H: What the whole relationship thing?
T: mmm
H: Yeah
J: Cant make it out
T:Yeah thats what louise as saying she was like, she said er, like, its horrible coz sometimes theres tension in here, you do feel it sometimes
J: I must admit like, Im glad, like, ya na what I mean, I do feel for the bloke but Im glad Im not like that with lou
H: god yeah
Tom: At the end of the day jay, nobody said I dont like the way Jay treats louise, or that I think louise leads jay on, or anything like that..nobodys said that have they?
H:Yeah and you two are like..
T: your quite casual like..
H: your still yourselves, I still see you as jay and louise as louise where as now
T: Aaron and faye is aaron and faye
J: it is aaron and faye aye
H: Theyre constantly just bickering, and like, Ive given up
T: They do dont they, theres no giving them advice coz they just
H: Faye will come to us and say 'oh yeah me and aaron what do you think I should do' and then aaron will be like 'oh yeah du du du du'
T: its like that night when she was like oh I think Im just gunna leave it til im out and see what happens and she gave her reasons for it and i thought well i think if thats what you think then
J: I think that was the best thing to do but then a couple of hours later shes in his bed
H:Yeah exactly, and I was just like
J: At the end of the day Aaron did turn round and say if jem leaves if faye tries to get back into is I will tell her where to gan
H: Yeah
J: because he was hurt by the whole..thing
T: Thats it Jay, I think he thinks its just what jemma has said but its not just that
J: yeah a na, its not
T:Theres other things like, I think hes trying to put all the blame on jem, which isnt the case I did say actually there is other things and he was like what and I was like, well I dunno youl have to speak to faye about everything wont ya. But I know like he doesnt treat her very nice sometimes
H:No exactly
T: Its not like hes standing there going your a bitch, but ya cant be with someone in a house like this were you've gotta be with them, and ignore them for days
J: Aye its coz of stuff like that thats what looks bad
H:Shel come over to him and hes like..
T: And have like a drastic falling out coz she burped
H: Yeah I couldnt believe that
J: Aye that was ridiculous
H: He took a whole day to get over a burp, I was like...

Nowhere near as bad as how people are making it out to be. Its not like they are sat discussing how Aaron had badly mistreat faye like some would like it to be. They are merely pointing out what we already know, that faye and Aaron have a complicated relationship, and that he takes huffs over little things. Nothing in that conversation contradicts what we have seen for ourselves already.

And again, their main criticism seems to be the burp thing. Yes, he overreacted, but noone would be happy with their 'new' partner burping in their face purposely when they knew they didnt like it. In real life he would probably have just gone home and seen her the next day, but he CANT do that in there.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by jet

I'm seeing some pretty convincing points, and I also saw them with my own eyes on BB. Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

OK first off...I wouldnt do that.

If I knew that burping in his ear would piss him off...and someone who my 'new' partner didnt get on with was egging me on to do it just to piss him off, and I knew he was sensitive about manners then no way would I do it.

And if I did I would expect him to probably go home, or at least have an argument about it. As it happens, Aaron doesnt really do arguments, so obviously he would have just removed himself from the situation. Unfortunately in the BB house he cant exactly do that can he?