[RodHull]

So you think its unreasonable for him to dislike someone who has (by her own admission) tried to break down his 'hollywood veneer' since day 1 and get inside his head and then flair up at him whenever shes drunk with desperately needy behaviour. Even though he has repeatedly told her to leave him alone and stop seeing him as her little 'project'... Its calmed down now she has the twins to focus on, but before that whole episode her pursuit of his attention was relentless to the point where I felt sorry for him.

I dont think thats 'unreasonable'. Unreasonable would be if she had treated him with respect and kindness and never put a foot wrong and he had still insulted her. I assume you have people in your life who have annoyed you despite trying to tell them, is it 'unreasonable' if you then insult them in a private conversation??