[Mrluvaluva]

It would be such a hard decision. One of the hardest I think somebody would have to make. If you went ahead with the pregnancy, as Vicky said, either or both of you could see the child as a constant reminder of what had happened, and that could tear you both apart. They would be the product of that awful incident. On the other hand, once the child was born, you may feel nothing but love for it. It has done no wrong in the world, and feelings could change.

It's a hard decision to make, as feelings could change either way after the birth, but one, I imagine, that would not be taken likely. One of the considerations is about how it could actually affect the child. Would you tell them the truth about things? If not, what would happen if they found out by some means later in life, and how would they feel about that? It could affect them quite badly. I would not ever want to be in such a horrible and heart wrenching situation.