[MatthewS]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Im cool with anyone here liking who they like, Im not interested in changing who people support, I only want people to be more objective and no so blinded. For example, I like Deana and Lauren but I am able to admit they are not perfect and are weak in some aspects.

It just seems to me that people here blindly defend their favorites to the death, even when it is obvious that some of their behaviours is not appropriate and quite dangerous at times.

I whole heartily agree . I don't like a few people in the house, but I'd never judge another member or throw personal insults their way just because they do. It's all personal choice. Just a shame it doesn't go both ways on here with certain people.

Originally Posted by Yayita

Matt, you have some valid points but Caroline does bully people, im not sure about discrimination but she defo does bully... constantly speaking negatively about others in such a way that changes the group dynamic towards that person is considered bullying.

I wasn't commenting on a situation with Caroline. I was commenting on the discussion between Ash & Shiv, regarding them having a laugh at Adam while he was jogging.

Saying negative things about someone, disliking someone, or having a laugh at someone elses expense, does not automatically equate to bullying or discrimination. Bullying and discrimination are very specific occurrences. By definition, the actions in question have to include specific circumstances and variables. If they don't, then it's not. That's not to say Ash & Shiv weren't being mean/rude/catty, it just isn't bullying or discrimination.