[joeysteele]

[QUOTE=CherieB;5286663]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

She got the message for her Birthday from outside from the children, she got a cake and oh for goodness sake Ashleigh's birthday song.

It was okay I guess, Lydia was kept waiting until near the end of the day for her treats.
I do agree though, if one housemate gets a party,all should. I can't see any legitimate reason to give one housemate a party over another unless they only did it for landmark birthdays like a 21st. Two have already had parties so no other housemate should be threated differently,they should all have equal status.[/QUOTE]

Totally disagree, there have no RIGHTs to anything....the parties were all quite diverse at any rate so no precedent has been set..Shievonne and Luke A didnt attend Ashleigh birthhay party, she had no messages from home, or was the singing bday card a message from home, not sure.., Lydia had a phone call from home as well as a party, Shievs birthday fell in the middle of a task, so bad luck as where would they have held it, given the blues and greens couldnt unite? if BB had given her a party, people would have moaned and said theres no point to these santions as they always end up giving them food.... when HMs go into the house there should be no expectation of anything, and as for treating them all the same, how boring would that be...

Crumbs,back off a bit, I actually in reality don't think any housemate should have a party or special treatment, but like anywhere,if you do something for one it shoudl be done for another, age doesn't come into it.

All the blues and greens were made to gather round to hear Ashleigh sing her birthday song to her, so clearly with BB's permission they could unite for a purpose.

As I say, I don't think they should ever get preferential treatment,any of them,or parties for birthdays but equally so, don't do something for one or more but not others.

In any place you go or whatever you do, would you be happy if someone or everyone else got treatment that you didn't, you really wouldn't make a song about that would you not, say for instance you had family in there or a close friend and their birthday was on a day in there, every other housemate had got a message from home or a special treat but your family member or friend was ignored on their birthday, you would say that's right.
I for sure wouldn't.